More, faster, better
‘It’s just that women seem to suffer a particular kind of burnout, driven by this insatiable need to prove themselves.’
Blood feud @ the All Stars
‘Each hanging sack represented some asshole, ex-lover, husband, wife, some significant other.’
On the table
‘You spend a lot of time thinking about all the ways you might be judged when you enter into a relationship in which you pay to get naked and have someone touch you.’
Men explain sexual liberation to me in ‘Poor Things’
‘Can a bunch of cis men make a responsible and meaningful movie about a woman’s struggle to liberate herself from the patriarchy?’
Finding your feet
‘You still experience that feeling of self-consciousness that pricks you every time you slip into leggings and tank tops.’
Dana Scully taught me it’s OK to be vulnerable
‘Forget about aliens and spaceships for a moment; the truth of the capability of human beings to commit monstrous acts is here, right now.’
On developing queer confidence
‘My gay imposter syndrome and writing imposter syndrome are always competing to take up more headspace.’
Gazing gently
‘Sometimes, I would like to just post the fucking photo. Without overthinking it.’
‘Girls mature quicker’ is a myth
‘The myth that girls mature quicker gets passed down, travelling through the veins of father to son, uncle to nephew.’
Rebel, Rebel
‘Sometimes I ask myself if I put on women’s clothes to hide the macho underneath. Am I a wolf in sheep’s clothing or just a man in a dress?’
Empowerment is the fuel of the childfree movement
“I just knew there had to be others like me out there.” An interview with Zoë Noble, founder of ‘We Are Childfree’
Life-giving podcasts of 2022
Our editor shares the ten podcasts that have got her through the year.
I would steal idols
‘The pedestal I imagined Sherman Alexie to stand on imploded, and for a moment, I felt just as naïve as I had some years back when I stepped foot into Mexico.’
Another COVID breakup
‘Under the strain of financial hardship, enforced togetherness and the lack of circuit breakers usually provided by the outside world, many relationships have imploded.’
Freedom is a woman’s choice in ‘All the Lovers in the Night’
Mieko Kawakami’s latest novel is a richly-textured exploration of the choices we make as women, and the choices that are sometimes made for us – or taken away from us.
The girlboss tragedy of Shiv Roy
‘Shiv Roy was born swimming upstream. This is the only world she knows; one in which being a woman with opinions places you low on the food chain.’
This Valentine’s Day, choose compassion over materialism
There are alternative ways to honour the patron saint of lovers
Music for a more conscious world
A modern classical composer changing the way we consume music